20 Duties Every Brother Of The Bride Must Know! (Tag Him Now!)

So your sister’s getting married? Congratulations, brother of the bride, you’re officially entering the most chaotic, emotional and unforgettable time of your life. And spoiler alert: this isn't just about showing up in a sherwani, doing a half-hearted sangeet step and eating shaadi ka food. You’re about to become the backbone of this wedding.

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From being her emotional support system when the lehenga trials go wrong, to becoming the official choreographer, chauffeur, bodyguard, and emergency fixer. You’ll wear more hats than there are functions. Oh, and did we mention you’ll be expected to smile through it all while pulling the groom’s ear during the varmala like it’s your life mission?

This list isn’t just about “duties.” It’s about being there fully for the one person who’s probably loved and tolerated you through every annoying phase of your life. So whether you’re the elder, younger, twin, cousin or honorary “brother-from-another-mother” - this one’s for you. Let’s break down the 20 ultimate things every brother of the bride must do and do fabulously!

1. The Certified Hype Man

Nobody gets the bride in the mood quite like her bro! Whether she’s nervous before walking in or unsure about her mehendi look, you better bring the good vibes and loudest cheers. Think of yourself as her personal energy drink, on loop.

2. Dance Ka Default Jack

Some cousin bailed last minute from the sangeet performance? Guess who's replacing them? YOU. Whether it’s a romantic solo or a cringey group dance to “Desi Girl,” the spotlight is yours to save the day!

3. The Chill Pill During Her Meltdowns

One blouse didn’t fit. The mandap decor is 30 minutes late. Someone called her makeup “subtle” (which she thinks means boring). When she spirals, it’s your cue to step in. Calm her down, distract her, and throw in a goofy compliment. It works every time.

4. Her Personal Chauffer With No Overtime Pay

You're not just a brother, you’re also her go-to taxi guy. From picking up cousins at the airport to hauling shopping bags from Chandni Chowk to home, your car, your playlist, your patience, bro.

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5. The Ultimate DJ-slash-Bouncer

Craft that banger playlist for every event, from poolside brunch to baraat beats. And if the DJ messes up the bride’s entry song? Feel free to stage a peaceful protest or threaten to cast your own spotify list!

6. The Groom-Guard + Ear-Pulling Pro

Your big moment comes when it’s time to pull the groom’s ear - yes, that sweet ritual where you remind him with full sass that your sister is a queen and better be treated like one! Add a filmy line for drama.

7. The Wardrobe Jury

She’s going to ask you which blouse looks better, what earrings vibe with her look and if her outfit looks too red. You don’t get to say “anything’s fine.” Learn to fake fashion expertise. You got this.

8. The Human Power Bank + Emergency Kit Hero

Tissues? Safety pins? Extra phone charger? Chappals? Crocin? You are literally a walking shaadi saviour. Have your “bro bag” ready with all the SOS essentials she’ll need when chaos hits.

9. Photographer On Call

“You clicked it from below na that’s why my chin looks like that!”. Get ready to hear that 19 times. Pro tip: Keep snapping candids and learn which filter makes her feel cute. Your photo album is going to be her fav post-wedding.

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10. Haldi Attack Officer

The Haldi ceremony = your time to go wild. Splash the groom. Dunk the cousins. Wipe your hands on everyone’s faces like a certified menace. Your sister will pretend to be mad, but she’ll laugh about it later. We promise!

11. Food Police For The Bride

Between functions, she's probably skipping meals to save her lipstick or outfit. Sneak in bites of food, juice or chocolates between ceremonies. A well-fed bride is a happy bride. For all the nights she made you maggi, this is your time to pay it back!

12. The Baraat Insider

Yes, you’re on the bride’s team but you need to infiltrate the groom squad too. Make allies. Coordinate dances. And plan a shoe theft scheme that’s basically Ocean’s Eleven: Shaadi Edition.

13. The Sangeet Director

Someone needs to yell at people for missing rehearsals, forgetting steps and not matching beats. Be that someone. With swag. Channel your inner Farah Khan and make that sangeet legendary.

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14. Mama Tracker & Family GPS

“Mummy kahan hai?” “Nani kaunse room mein hai?” “Dadu ka shawl kahan gaya?” Expect to be the official Google Maps for the wedding. Trust us, even the planner will come asking.

15. Cousin Bonding CEO

Someone has to organise late-night gossip sessions, Maggie noodle feasts, card games and playlist battles. Keep the vibe alive, even when the functions are done. You’re not just a brother, you’re also the glue holding the chaos together.

16. Backup Emcee, Always

The microphone stops working? The host didn’t show up? Guess who’s stepping in to call out the next performance and roast the groom? Yup, bhai to the rescue. Keep some punchlines ready, just in case.

17. The Bride’s Human Diary

She’ll get emotional, nervous, hyper, and exhausted, all in one function. You’re her sounding board. Let her rant. Let her cry. Let her hug you in full makeup and ruin your kurta. These are the moments you’ll miss later.

18. Selfie Supervisor and Filter King

You'll be dragged into 100 selfies, be made to retake 40 of them and be asked “do I look tired?” every 10 minutes. Learn the art of angles and patience, bro!

19. The Bidaai Rock

You will cry. Maybe not in public. Maybe in the car after. But when she leaves, it hits different. Just hug her tight and be her strength when her mascara can’t hold on anymore.

20. The Forever Favourite

She’ll never forget how you made her wedding feel like a fairytale, even if it meant zero sleep, 58 errands and dancing with her phoolon ka chadar on your head. You're not just her brother, you’re her hero.

Most importantly, just be there for her!

Weddings can be overwhelming, especially for the bride who's about to step into a whole new chapter. And while it’s easy to get caught up in last-minute chaos or fixing random issues at the venue, don’t let that moment slip by. So many brothers miss the actual ceremony because they’re running around but trust us, nothing is more important than standing by her side at the mandap. Be there. Be present. She’ll remember that forever.

*Updated by Apoorva Pagar

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